Self Relationship

Defining Happiness


Happiness is a personal feeling that some people explain as contentment, an absence of hurt or frustration, extended euphoria, good health and feelings, set goals accomplished, successful outcomes, debts paid off, presence of abundance, confirmed prospects of unending supply,even a growing bank account, and above all a  relationship with God and secure relationship with an attentive partner or spouse.

A person’s sense of Happiness is ensured by and depends on the continued state of the conditions  listed above around them.

It amounts to feeling good about the positive events in one’s life

Any shift in said conditions would effect a downward change in the state of a person’s happiness.

So then what  is true happiness, where does it begin and  what are its roots?

Mike Murdock of The Wisdom Center quotes

” Happiness does not start around you, it begins inside you.Stop waiting for flowers to arrive”.

He gives 4 Essential Ingredients for Happiness:

1.Your relationship with God is a Must: he is your Creator and wants to have regular commune with his creation.

2.Your relationships with Family are Vital.Time spent with your family is never wasted.Wipe out criticism and sarcasm from your home.

Be a confidence builder.

3. Friendships are greater than Gold. Discern those orchestrated by the Holy Spirit and build  them carefully, consistently and wisely.

4. Setting goals is important to achieving your Happiness

Start building on your dreams. Resist those who control and change your personal goals ….Mike Murdock,The Wisdom Center

Get started on a project in your life, especially one that gives you a sense of personal fullfilment and accomplishment.


You are the only one there is like you, and your value is priceless.

Moreover you are one with God because God dwells inside you.

Therefore you are to celebrate you each and every day, even when you don’t feel like celebrating, because of the unique quality that you have been given at birth, from your fingerprints,  eye retina, hand print, individual gait, distinctive voice and even breath print.

All these things make you unique and priceless.



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Changing Bad Habits

Habits are any practices that we adopt and engage in repeatedly without any conscious thought.

In order to develop good habits , we must intentionally engage  our minds into

adopting rituals and behaviors that contribute to productive and harmonious living with others.

Changing old habits while possible are not always easy.Old patterns we’ve developed become ingrained and so it takes being intentional, with a plan purpose and goals for achieving success to break old habits.

Goal setting is a productive way to motivate ourselves into adopting good habits and avoid slipping into habits that are destructive or counterproductive.

Goals not executed end up being just only a ‘good idea’.

We must be prepared to do ‘one thing’ daily that sets us on the road to achieving our set goal.Things get better when yout ake the first step.

Pledging to do the ‘next right thing’ puts us in the right frame of mind for success.We must act and do the ‘next right one thing’

Make a decision to work with others to find success in achieving your goal for breaking your habit.

Working with an accountability partner, and lots of support is another way to

ensure success  with doing the next right thing.

“Be a goal setter and not a problem watcher. Life is  a series of  doing the next right thing ” .

….Dr Randy Carlson author of “The Power of One Thing- How to intentionally change Your Life”

Be intentional about changing the problem by doing the ‘one next thing’. Take small steps and start today.

Lynette Laveau Saxe

Success Coach

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Creating a Positive Mind-set

Whatever it is that you want, be it  better relationship within the family, money, or friendship , it is already created for you and available totally to you.

In order to accept this as fact, you need to do the following.

Start by shifting your mental attitude from negative to positive, from blocked to open,removing all obstacles that bring bliss into your life.

This can be done by attuning your body to create an easy flow of positive currents through the vibrations that  encompass our bodies.These neurological activities begin in the brain,and can be manipulated through Neuro Linguistic Programming,(NLP) an effortless  and learnable process by which you rewire the mind using the language of the brain, to change almost any area of your life. 

NLP enables the neuro patterns of the brain to mysteriously transform their patterns. This sets up a chain of occurrences  in the subconscious level that begin to attract to you what you need to accomplish your stated goal.

Having a healthy balanced diet, lots of sleep, adequate exercise and existence in an environment that supports positive thinking, also helps to stabilize us into a healthy regimen and sense of well being for accomplishing the aforementioned goals.

In a pretty quick way, through the governance of our  conscious thought patterns we can turn things around in our favor,  so that we begin to attract  into our lives, desirable circumstances and people which align with our desires and thoughts.

Immediately the subconscious mind, works to align reality with  that which we were intentional about visualizing and entertaining in our conscious thoughts, with positive expectations.

The smallest iota of doubt or negative thinking also known as ‘stinking thinking’ in relation to the outcome undermines the process.

Through faith expectaion and a positive mind-set, we  attract and ‘Will’ the desired occurrences, to come into  our lives.

Having a positive mind-set is  the essence and core of building great relationships.

Lynette Laveau Saxe,

Host of Callalloo Express Radio Show on  Relationships.

CCTV -WCCR Cambridge, Every Monday 12:00pm – 2:00pm

Host of The Callalloo Express TV show, every Monday 6:30 pm – 7:00pm

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